Disable Bluetooth autoplay Android 11

Hi all-
2019 Alltrack S
Android 11

If I invest in OBDeleven, can I disable bluetooth autoplay or forced contacts download?

• Bluetooth media auto plays no matter the setting on my phone and apps with "prevent autoplay on connection" are ignored.
• Contacts download stutters audio until it completes. If I disable it on my phone, the car still tries to download contacts and throws an error on the head unit.

I found no related threads on searching.
Thank you!

EDIT: Oops, please have this moved to MK7 FL if possible. Otherwise, my question is fairly universal - wondering if OBDeleven has this kind of functionality.

Dont you go into the MIB settings, Bluetooth, paired devices then there a picure of a phone and a music note, tap the music note so its greyed out and then thats done?
And when you pair it asks if you want to sync contacts

vwjap
Those are good suggestions, but I still want to play music and audiobooks over bluetooth, just on my own choice of when. Disabling media profile doesn't let me play music.